some men, when confronted with sexual intercourse with his wife, can not serve as active role, it has generated fear or worry sex, orgasm can not appreciate the fun and instantly obvious cause penile erection can not, the phenomenon called in medicine Sexual intercourse phobia.

  sexual intercourse phobia who is neither a serious sexual metamorphosis, is not a moral hazard, Xunhuawenliu people, but only some of the psychological disorders, is more complicated. For example, some people in the psychological development of children during the period was not the right education, or be a strong stimulus, it is not a normal sexual roles, it will be difficult to adulthood after the completion of the appropriate role of behavior. This is both cases: One is the lack of parental love, loneliness comparison, sexual psychology remain in the "narcissism" stage, only from acts of masturbation was on comfort, are met. The other is the strong stimulus, such as a man in his minors, responsible for the care of paralysis in the bed of heterosexual parents, she Yaoti handle urine, in his mind, it will be female genital contact with the dirty, adult After exchanges with women in general, but fear that female genital mutilation, fear of sexual intercourse.

  some young people, sex can not be the first time in the successful completion of sex, over-excitement, fear, tension, resulting in sexual dysfunction. If this man is just a cowardly or exaggerated type of people, then failure will be the first time in the brain caused by an exaggerated impression - that they are incapable of, and in the next intercourse become more tense and scared .

  then control how the fear of sexual intercourse? » First psychologically to such a strong conviction: human sexuality is a natural instinct, I have this ability, as sweating will not learn, to digest food will be the same. In sexual intercourse before, we should only consider the success, not failure to consider, do not worry about the past have found nothing, but should be back from this, that "I will be successful." With such an ideological preparation and psychological foundation, we have successfully by half.

  Secondly, with the consent of the wife's consent and understanding, is also very important. The fear of male sexual intercourse in the treatment of the wife is the key. His wife must give her husband more love, to melt such a fear. In addition to her husband in peacetime can and often initiate discussions on this topic, the husband and wife together reading books on sexual knowledge to understand scientific knowledge, know how to normal human sexual response. In addition, we must encourage the sex life of her husband to take the initiative, step by step, gradually overcoming fear.

  how to eliminate the wedding of his wife's fear of

  wedding-yan Seoul, the first rookie to wavering volatile sexuality into the dim living reality, most are satisfied with the flies. However, some brides are in sex, have the fear of an invisible, even while her husband Yipeng, has collapsed or scared screaming past, and that is had "sex-phobia."

  Well, the reason for this phenomenon is what is » According to research of psychologists, mainly from lack of knowledge caused by. For example, some love the girl complained that whenever they look forward to a better future, there are a sense of fear, worry that the day of marriage, sexual intercourse may be painful, lower body will be blood Lin Li  every thought here, they would not dare to Would like to continue or even to simply not married. This has increased the psychological burden of fear and the formation of the initial emotion. There are also the bride by the feudal sense of the impact that the junior and men's sleep is obscene, dirty, sex, pregnancy is the pleasure of men, women suffer, and so on. Their marriage, anxiety, fear has been filled with Naoji, to be married during sex, anxiety, fear the emotional and absurd idea will Youranersheng and the resultant increase.

  was also suffering from chronic diseases, but the sexual instinct is still there, the demand for sexual desire, there'll often Xinyuanyima. Due to lack of necessary knowledge, know little about the sex life of chronic illness study whether intended impact, thus Shangshen fearing that the process of sexual intercourse, which also have a psychological feeling of fear.

elimination of female fear of the following two methods:

  (1) to acquire knowledge of: many women of fear is led by the lack of knowledge of. As some scholars put it: "dopey fear and anxiety, knowledge and security has refused to fear." Therefore, to husband and wife together reading books on sexual knowledge, understanding women's sexual psychology and sexual related to the physical, psychological knowledge.

  (2) shift the attention of law: their attention from the object of fear to transfer to other areas, which is to eliminate the fear of an effective way. If the initial sexual intercourse when the woman because of shyness and suspicion, the man should be of particular concern to women and thoughtful, Fuai and patience, and her conversation, the woman step by step stimulate sexual desire, when the woman was unable to inhibit sexual impulses, the gradual completion of the re-integration, Fear of hearts that it naturally does not exist.

(internship Editor: Rachel)